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    Look out Mario Andretti!

    At about 9 months of age my son Ethan decided he was ready to learn the delicate craft of vertical stance and forward propagation. His new adventure began with the simple task of being vertical on two legs for periods of five to ten seconds, ending with a clumsy step forward and a tumbling move back down to the cold hard earth better known as shag carpet. Of course both Ecih and I had been hand holding and training Ethan's little legs and mind since early on, however, this was different, Ethan was on his own. Ethan was showing us he was ready to leap from the nest, spread his wings and feel the air flow through his feathers. I try to imagine how Ethan must feel and I liken it to how I felt when I turned sixteen and my father handed me the keys to my first 4x4 truck. I rallied that wimpy truck at the Dimond sand pits like I was a super star in a monster truck. I had a ball, pushing the boundaries of my world. One month after Ethan recieved the keys to his own two feet, he's now burning rubber all throughout the house! Ethan does laps around the couch. Ethan has a collection of toys and objects that he stores in the grated metal bins by our living room window. Ethan plays games with us, chasing us around the couch, then running away when we chase him. When we go to the mall and I park Ethan upright on the white marble floor in an open area, he enjoys the new smooth and predictable surface for practicing his turns and only stops when he finds shiny brass outlet coverings that look like they might taste good. The other day Ethan climbed on top of a 6 inch step stool and stood tall for a moment, with no hands, as if he'd reached the summit of Everest. When Ethan realized he hadn't planned his descent, he showed me a look of fear and I caught him before he tumbled off the cliff. This last month has been a whole lotta fun and laughs. I can't wait to teach Ethan how to ride a bike and catch fish. Good times ahead my friends!

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    My Little Pterodactyl

    Ethan has learned to squawk! He has us trained with his squawk! It echoes through the house like it came from a baby dinosaur! Often it's clear that he's playing with his voice and exploring sound, most of the time though, the squawk means, "your the next contestant on the game of Read My Mind".

    The Fall of Little Man

    Ethan, Ecih, and I are grooving on a Sunday afternoon!

     

    Ethan appears to be trying to skip the crawling phase and go straight to walking. He’ll chill on the belly and back for a few minutes, however, he’d much rather be upright, in our arms or attempting to walk with our help. Any crawling that Ethan does at this point resembles a jet ski that you’ve fallen off of, it just goes in a circle and then starts idling funny.

     

    Ethan loves lying on the ottoman and bouncing. For a really long time, he loved it more than anything. That is until he did a back flip off the ottoman… yes folks, I had the front of the ottoman protected, I had my legs on both sides, the little man just kicked really hard and swoosh… thuthunk… waaaahhhh! Ethan has officially done his first back flip from the ottoman onto the carpet. I felt like a bad parent for a moment. Then I realized, no scars, no strawberry burns, no red marks, no bumps, not even a tear… just a big waaahhh, I want a booby, now! I’m sure it must have been shocking. No tears though, he was ok. The next time Ecih put Ethan on the ottoman though, he let us know that he’s not exactly cool with it.

     

    As a parent, my takeaway is that kids will fall. As a parent you want to minimize the distance and pain in that fall. This can be a metaphor for every kind of lesson. Strangley, in my life, I feel as if I learn the best when I fall, when I hit the ground, when I feel the pain.

     

    Ethan learned that he needs to master the ground before he’s ready for the sky. We’ve both learned that if you’re doing back flips, make sure to do it off a swing, when you’re in third grade, on a play ground retro fitted with wood chips for a nice soft landing. Smile

    The Rhoades Saga - Chapter One

    Ecih and I were welded at the hip since the day we met at the Sip restaurant in Issaquah Washington on October 9th 2006. After knowing each other for a week, we haven't spent a day apart. This is how I always imagined it… the further we travel together, the more real my imagination becomes.
     
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    I remember the spring of 2007 when Ecih asked me to have a child with her, the tingle in my nose; it blossomed outward into subtle glossy eyes and then a feeling of joy all throughout my body. I had been searching for many years for my girl, she had finally arrived, and I knew she was the one.
    Over the years, I’ve attended several weddings; it always seemed like such a project to please everyone else… ughhh. Do something because you think its right, do something because it makes you feel good, and do things because you believe in them. Do NOT burden yourself with an endless road of trying to fulfill others expectations, particularly when you don’t believe or agree. You will fail or grow tired, either way someone loses. Focus on win win situations. My friend, elopement to a quiet remote mountainous destination in the Sierra Nevada’s was a great way to tie the knot (except for the sound man… hahaha). Ecih and I were married on June 9th 2007 at Crystal Bay Nevada.
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    In life, through exploration, crawling in the gutters, exploring dark crevices of the city and listening to the quiet uttering’s of the lonely mountainside; I have arrived at a few certainties. One, that someday I will die, two, I can die at any moment, three, I am constructed of some of that which came before me, and four, I will become all that remains after I die. It’s really nothing special… a way of thinking that soothes my mind such that I was never born and I will never die… eternal life if you will. I am a ramet inside a 40 thousand year Aspen grove on my way to my millionth birthday. Before being a ramet, I was carbon scattered from two colliding galaxies, hydrogen and oxygen from an exploding star, collected by a comet and delivered to earth… and I don’t even care if all my chemistry is right, I think you monkeys understand what I mean (wink).
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    In this flow, in this iteration, in the pattern that is, my sons, my daughters, and Ethan, are what is to become of me. In this moment, Ethan is my destination.
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